We all live in the same world, with the same people. Won’t it be great if we could deal with the predicaments brought on by uncooperative, unpleasant, obstructive or cynical people in a better way? Read these 8 ways to nullify the negativity of other people and to maintain your peace of mind.Best reaction? Don’t react!:
Negativity can be contagious, but just like when you have strong immunity you don’t catch cold from someone who has it, negativity of another person can be kept at bay by not reacting at the spur of the moment. By not reacting you make a choice to not be a part of the heated discussion that could have taken place because, there is no end to it. Once it starts, it’s hard to stop. Everyone wants to put their point first and want the last sentence to be theirs.Forgive and forget:
It’s good not to react the first time someone acts out. Try to give benefit of doubt when someone acts in an odd fashion. Try to focus on the good things about that person and analyze why he/she must have spoken in an improper manner.Think smart and then speak:
Talk with an aim to subside the matter. Choosing the right words can turn the argument into a discussion and help in resolving the conflicts. Define boundaries:
If being civil doesn’t work, then be indifferent and cut the negative people off from your life to as much extent as you can, because getting down to their level will only hamper your productivity.Be in harmony with pragmatic people:
Self-improvement is therapeutic! Stay motivated and keep your confidence boosted by working on your imperfections, refining our skills and enhancing your personality. Let your positive aura outshine their negative one. Meditate/Elevate your life condition:
Do things that give you stability and keep your mind at peace. Meditation provides a channel for self-talk where you can get closer to you and your sublime and awe-inspiring thoughts.
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