- The Law of Polarity is based on the idea that every action or outcome has an equal and opposite reaction.
- Use the Law of Polarity to manifest by letting go of limiting beliefs and expecting positive outcomes.
- To create polarity in your relationship, listen and support your partner, and let your “masculine” and “feminine” energies ebb and flow as needed to find balance.
What is the Law of Polarity?
The Law of Polarity states that everything has an equal opposite. Like flipping a coin, there is always the existence and potential for a polar outcome, whether good or bad, black or white, life or death, you name it—this is because the universe needs to maintain balance. The Law of Polarity gives us a choice to choose between these opposites—the more we embrace one of the outcomes, the more we attract. Under the Law of Polarity, the more energy you put into one of the two outcomes (positivity vs. negativity, etc.), the more of that same energy you get back. Thus, thinking positively will bring more positivity into your life—yes, please! For every gift you receive, aim to give a gift away—this keeps the good energy flowing. For example, if someone complimented you, compliment someone else to make their day and promote positivity in your life.
The Law of Polarity is a concept that doesn’t perceive “good” or “bad.” Good and bad, positive and negative, love and hate, any opposites you can think of are equal in the eyes of the universe—no pole is better than the other. To put it simply, a fire could mean devastation for some but an opportunity to plant on fertile soil for others. The Law of Polarity asks us to embrace whatever happens and try to make the best out of whatever may come our way. Regardless of any situation you’re in, the Law of Polarity gives you the opportunity to embrace positivity or pessimism—the choice is yours!
Using the Law of Polarity to Manifest
Identify your limiting beliefs. If you’ve been having trouble manifesting your desires, it might be because you’re not addressing the root of the problem. For example, if you really want to meet the love of your life but keep attracting people who let you down, you might be too willing to accept people who aren’t worth your time because you struggle to see your worth. The Law of Polarity asks you to dig deep and let go of these limiting beliefs—you can do anything and more. Write a list of all the things you want to manifest on one side of the page and their opposites on the other side. If you feel the negative side is more likely to happen, let go of your limiting beliefs by reminding yourself that everything working out in your favor is no more unlikely to occur than the polar opposite—you've got this!
Expect positive outcomes. Not only can positive thinking speed up your manifestations, but it can also improve your mental health by reducing stress. Plus, the Law of Polarity states that like attracts like, so the more positivity you put out into the world, the more you’ll manifest back into your life—it’s a win-win. Break up negative thinking patterns by exchanging a negative thought for a positive one. For example, when you’re worried about something and find yourself thinking negatively, think of something you're grateful for instead, like having a loving group of friends. Thinking positively means trying to find the good in every scenario. For example, if you are feeling limited by your current situation, see it as an opportunity to learn and grow into the person you want to become by continuing to pursue your dreams and passions.
The Law of Polarity & Relationships
Polarity is balanced in strong relationships. Since the Law of Polarity presents itself as equal but opposite poles, it’s especially evident in “masculine” and “feminine” energy. As the saying goes, “Opposites attract,” and this is especially true in relationships. When two people of any gender balance each other out, their relationship can thrive. Not to mention, this polar energy can also create quite the “spark” in relationships, leading to improved intimacy and connection. Any gender can have “masculine” or “feminine” energy. People with “masculine” energy tend to be authoritative yet often have trouble expressing themselves, while people with “feminine” energy tend to be more easy-going, but their giving, nurturing nature can lead them to overlook their own needs.
Too much of the same energy can cause strain in a relationship. According to the Law of Polarity, you and your partner must embrace your natural “feminine” and “masculine” energies to maintain harmony and spark in your relationship. When both you and your partner attempt to change your natural energy tendencies to please the other, your relationship may become tense, stagnant, or unbalanced. When the partner with “feminine” energy in your relationship feels unloved, they may become more detached, whereas when the partner with “masculine” energy feels overly controlled, they may lose direction. A lack of polarity, or “passion,” can lead to more arguing and less commitment. For example, if your relationship is without polarity, you or your partner may feel inclined to look elsewhere for thrill and excitement—this is what differentiates a friendship from an intimate relationship.
Communicate openly with your partner to create balance. If you’ve been feeling that there’s a lack of sensuality in your relationship, don’t be afraid to let your partner know by inviting them to have an open, honest, judgment-free conversation with them about it. They might just be feeling the same way! For example, you might tell your partner, “I struggle with expressing myself, and would love it if we could both make an effort to tell each other how we’re feeling at least once a day so we’re both on the same page,” or, “I’d like to take more of an active role in our relationship, so I’d appreciate it if we can both make decisions together, rather than you making most of them yourself.” Vulnerability and empathy are key to maintaining a healthy relationship. When you and your partner can trust each other with sexual and emotional intimacy, your relationship will thrive.
Embrace your opposite energy force. The partner with more “masculine” energy must lean into their and their partner's “feminine” energy and vice versa. This means embracing emotional expression and assertiveness whenever they feel inclined to. Being your most authentic, truest self is key to depolarizing not only your own biases but those in your relationship as well—everyone has a constant flow of “masculine” and “feminine” energy within them. For example, the more “masculine” partner might show their more expressive, nurturing side by looking for ways to make their partner feel special and heard. The more “feminine” partner might lean into their more “masculine” side by maintaining confidence in their ability to make excellent decisions that support the well-being of themselves and their relationship.
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