Staying in Contact
Text your friend/s every day, or as often as possible, and ask them how are they doing. Ask questions about their life, like their school, work, or relationships. Even if they've made new friends, try to always support them by giving advice and talking about their problems. Always be there for them, and try not to ignore their texts if they text you. If you want to stay in contact with friends, you should make time for it even if you are busy. See if you are comfortable with your need to be in touch with them. For example, you do not feel you are bothering them or feel awkward in reaching out to them. Then give an open invitation to them to be in contact with you. For instance, you can tell them that you miss them and would like to get together with them.
Call your friend(s) often. Ensure that you sound cheerful when they answer your call. This way they won't get bored while talking to you. Ask them about the circumstances, and listen to them when they complain about a problem, a friend, a teacher, or a crush. Help them with their work or studies, try to link them to websites that might help them in their daily work. For instance, if your best friend is a medical aspirant, remember to notify them about a new website which helps in preparations. Such actions will show them that you care for them.
Use a variety of available technology to stay in touch. Many of us have a smartphone, computer or tablet, Skype, FaceTime, or other video chatting programs. These are some of the best ways to communicate with your friend. There are hundreds of great apps for you to use, so try to find one that works best for both of you. Do a handshake you guys did together or make a joke that'll make your friend laugh, seeing them laugh makes you happy because they are happy. Skype is also a well-known platform available for Windows and Android smartphones.In a while have a meal or snack together during the video call as if you are sitting side by side. If you're both gamers, buy the same games and make sure to play at least once a week, especially multiplayer games that can be played together as a party.
Write letters. Writing a letter can be a lot more meaningful than a simple text. Don't you just love opening the mailbox and seeing a letter from your BFF? Of course, this can be done more effectively if your friend stays in your state or country, since postage can be quite expensive.
Send your friend a postcard. Show them a special place around where you live, or send a gift that will definitely put a smile on their face.
Send your friend a present on occasion. It's always fun to receive a gift from a friend, and sending someone a something special shows the person that you care about them. A present is usually something personal. It's especially important to remember celebrations and birthdays. You can also send old funny photos of you and a group of friends so you can show funny one of them looked.
Try and see your friend, whenever possible. Even if it's only once a year, the time you spend together will be very special and cherished.
Maintaining Your Friendship through Conversations
Talk about things both you and your friend are interested in. Try to show interest in each other's hobbies, for example: You can show and see each others' hobbies like drawing, painting, singing, dance, poems, origami, collecting things, etc.; by sending photos or videos to each other (for we're talking about maintaining a long distance friendship)
Tell your friend about recent events. Whether it's an event in your life, your friend's life, or something in the news, recent events are usually good to talk about, as it feels personal.
Ask how your friend is doing. Offering help when necessary can be much appreciated.
Make plans to be reunited again. Talk about things you could do together. This will keep you both positive and looking forward to the future.
Plan activities that you can both enjoy and plan a phone date to discuss it. Just because you're apart doesn't mean you can't still experience something together. Find a book, TV show, movie, new type of exercise, anything that you can both partake in in your respective places. It will give you something to discuss that doesn't have to do with how separate your lives can seem at times.
Be yourself. Sometimes when you are no longer with your best friend on a regular basis, you may think that things have changed. Although some have, how you talk/treat each other shouldn't change at all! You are both the same people; however, you are probably not in the same place. But, it's up to you to keep your friendship as strong, or to make it even stronger than it used to be!
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